As women we set ourselves up to accept the love we think we want verse what we need.
It’s not that the wrong guys find us, we allow those men to do whatever they want until we reach our breaking point.

I am not a second choice but I allow it by accepting the attention when they want it.
It’s not being mean and it’s not okay to hate anyone.
But it is okay to always pray and love everyone even if it’s only in your alone time.
The company you keep determines the attraction you’ll seek. 💋

Clean out the mind, pick through your company and cleanse your life.

"There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you, and there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself."

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I hate when I figure people out an they become predictable and I don’t wanna talk to them anymore cause I can have the conversation alone in my head like ur pointless to have around now. ur not stimulating anymore. how am I gonna stay married if I think like this

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Why is that females that smoke weed, has had sex with multiple people or are in process in sleeping with multiple people, doesn’t have any goals in life get all the guys attention and are the females that get treated right or the commitment ? Is it that the females that don’t have those qualities aren’t in style anymore. Is the hoe type in style ? Or I am just seeing this in the little bubble that I live in which is the city I live in ?

"what sense does it make to leave what you love and risk the possibility of it never coming back to you?"

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"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t they never were.”- Richard Bach – Yeah?.. well fuck that shit and fuck Richard Bach. Do you honestly think, I have the time to meet someone, click, grow an attachment, fall in love, deeply in love, I’m not talking your average crush, I’m talking, going back to the days where we used to write love letters from long distances type of love, the “making a cup of tea and blowing it until its warm enough for them to drink” type of love… to have a soul connection, miss them, crave them, submit to them, etc.. just to let them go in the future. Wdf. Listen, if it’s gotton deep enough for me to fall into that type of love, I’m not letting you go. Fuck, I hate this generation of replacers. If something goes wrong, instead of fixing it, we replace, or let it go or some other dumb shit. No. Richard Bach, who is divorced, I will not take advice from you. As long as it isn’t toxic and unhealthy, I am not letting go."

8 Tips to Regain your Motivation


We all have those days when nothing seems to go your way no matter how hard you try. A bad day here and there isn’t too bad, but what do you do if you’re stuck feeling slow and groggy for a while? Here are some tips on how to brighten up and get your groove back.

1) Write your…

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